When I was married, I did not know anything about self-love or self-worth. My ex-husband tried his best to break my soul. He was such a negative person towards me after he started cheating on me. He had a very cocky attitude, and he felt like he was the big shot that everyone wanted to be with him. The divorce was needed. I am on my own and I love myself more, I am very patient and kind with myself. I learned to say “No” to people. I used to be a people pleaser. I would drain myself empty trying to help others when I was not doing well myself.